Masturbation can also enhance sexual performance among couples because masturbation  helps partners learn what excites each other. It is even recommended to guys who suffer from premature ejaculation enabling them to learn how to delay ejaculation.

The guys at esmale have put searched the cabinet of masturbatory curiosities to bring you FIVE of our favourite lubes and male sex toys including the bestselling Fleshjack designed to enhance wanking!

Fleshjack
The Fleshjack Ice Jack Crystal Mouth male masturbator will deliver a visually and texturally exciting masturbatory experience with it`s unique clear sleeve and smooth inner texture. Explore the depths of pleasure as you enter the mouth orifice and enjoy mind-blowing orgasms.

Tenga
The Tenga Egg Twister male masturbator sleeve has several lines that swirl vertically from top to bottom. Twist turn and thrust into the sleeve for intense sensations that promise a satisfying orgasm.

Swiss Navy Masturbation Cream
Swiss Navy Premium Masturbation Cream is a silky smooth cream lubricant created specifically for male masturbation.
A small amount of Swiss Navy Masturbation Cream is all you need to reach orgasm in a whole new way.

Ass Palm Pal Masturbator
The ass palm pal is a best selling male sex toy, this masturbator is made from realistic UR3 material for intensely pleasurable self-gratification the tight anal opening has an internal diameter of just 0.25 inches which stretches to accommodate absolutely any sized girth.

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This is the perfect choice for fans of top selling brand Oxballs or anal toys fanatics! This cock ring and butt plug combo provides super sensations from your penis right up your bum.

Slide your penis and testicles into the stretchy cock ring before slipping the textured butt plug into place for a fulfilling feeling that hits your p-spot and all the sensitive nerve endings. The best thing is every thrust, pull, tug, yank and grind of your penis is felt through to the butt plug for simultaneous stimulation.

The curvy butt plug has 2 curvy bulbs and a dual texture that’s sure to tease, tantalise and satisfy your prostate fantasies. The full girth feels gorgeously fulfilling.

A super-stretchy anal sex toy that offers simultaneous stimulation of your P-spot, anus and perineum as well as helping to maintain a bigger, thicker erection for longer. Every move can be felt through the butt plug, heightening every sexual experience.

This cock ring and anal toy is made from premium silicone with a smooth, shiny finish. The butt plug is made up of graduated anal beads. Apply a generous dollop of lube and this toys stays super slippery and slick when lubricated.

For added sensation we recommend submerging your Oxballs male sex toy in hot or cold water for different sensations.

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Checking out our the Hot House Blog I was instantly greeted by the incredibly hot Dean Flynn. Now working with Hot House some of you may be more familiar with seeing this strapping young man getting it on with the TitanMen. But now he’s back and making house calls and we couldn’t be more excited!

Dean Flynn is handsome, built, hung and sexy as hell. You can check him out in the upcoming Hot House movie Malpractice. He has a huge knob too, and if you ever dreamt of getting it on with him – you can! Well invest in the Dean Flynn Dildo molded directly on the sexy porn star himself.

Who wouldn’t want to spend the night with this stud? This gay dildo is molded directly from gay porn star Dean Flynn’s gorgeous cock and balls. This dildo is so realistic it looks and feels just like the real thing it is hand painted in realistic flesh tones with detailed colossal veins and head. This gay dildo is a great companion when watching your favorite Dean Flynn film.

This range of TitanMen anal toys features a suction cup strong enough to use on the floor wall shower or any slick surface you`re in like Flynn with the Dean Flynn Realistic dildo. This TitanMen gay dildo is Phthalate and latex-free and comes in a special edition TitanMen branded drawstring bag complete with a free sample of TitanMen lube. There are a lot of dildos probes and dongs on the gay sex toy market but the Dean Flynn gay dildo is really one of the best. Also available is TitanMen’s Marco Blaze gay dildo François Sagat gay dildo and Tony Buff gay dildo.

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Gun Oil is an innovative and top quality product designed to enhance our sexual enjoyment, or so I was told!

In my opinion the unique selling point that had me sold was the story behind the lube, trust me its so good I want to share this with you:

“… lubricant that keeps a man’s most important weapon well oiled. If the military issued a lube, this is what they would distribute with the condoms and artillery. During Operation Desert Storm, marines masturbated with actual military-issued CLP (cleans, lubricates, protects) while hunkered down in the trenches of Kuwaiti battlefields. One of those marines has developed a high-tech formula for smooth, rapid-fire action. This unique, hypoallergenic, silicone lube keeps a Private’s parts well lubricated with added vitamin E and Aloe Vera for longer lasting, slicker ride while minimizing skin irritation.”

Tried and tested
When a sample container of Gun Oil Force Recon arrived at esmale HQ it was difficult to ignore. This lube looks sexy, it comes in a bottle designed to look like a big bullet.

When you’re indulging in a spot of anal sex or masturbation, you need to have the right tools for the job. Regardless of your penchants and preferences, anal lubricant is a necessity and should never be left out of your fun and games.

Gun Oil Force Recon is designed for those who like it thick and slick, the great thing about this lube is that whilst it remains super slippery it stays exactly where you put it – making it mess free.

Calling all toy comrades. Have a masturbator toy? I recommend using the Gun Oil H20 waterbased lube. Condom compatible and safe to use with all sex toys, this lube was the perfect companion to a naughty film and a Fleshjack session. Simply, squeeze a little dab on and enjoy the ride.

I was too busy to notice but I should inform you that Gun Oil is infused with natural antimicrobials for additional health benefits.

I’ve saved the best for last it now comes in a great new tube, which is perfect to have at home or in your travel bag. This will ensure that you will always have your favourite lube at hand. Let’s face it you never know when you’ll need it!

Check out the full range of Gun Oil lubricants available at esmale here.

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How does it work?
The bestselling Oxballs cock ring is made of stretchy materials to avoid a vice-like grip on your penis but still provide a comfortable and firm ring for a kinky look and stronger erection.

Sexy features:
Available in a range of colours including Black, Zinc, and blood red to mention a few, there’s an Oxballs cock ring to suit most types of guys. The extra supple, flexible material means the ring fits snugly and gently around your penis without irritating his skin.

Top Tip:
If you’re prone to premature ejaculation, simply keep your Oxballs cock ring to hand and put this on as soon as you’re erect. This will help you keep going for that little bit longer.

If you’ve never used a cock ring because they’ve always looked too small, take a look at the Oxballs range this cock ring is really stretchy and overall highly recommended! If you’ve never tried one, give it a go.

View the full range of Oxballs gay sex toys available at esmale here.

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If you spend more time with your gay dildo or butt plug than you do with your mates and want some extra mileage from your gay sex toys, Pjur Body glide lube is just what the boys at esmale ordered.

Pjur Body Glide Silicone lube is a water-resistant lube that’s safe to use with condoms and ideal for long-lasting lubrication during sex.

Silicone lube is generally more expensive than water-based lube but you get a lot for your money. The long-lasting properties mean you won’t need to keep topping up your lubrication and you’ll need less of it too. Silicone lube is even waterproof, so it’s fantastic for fulfilling sex in the shower fantasies.

If you’re not already using lubricants with your trusty dildo, you will be amazed at how much more wetter and wilder your orgasms will be. For a limited time only you can save 30% OFF your 30ml and 100ml Pjur lube at esmale.

A good lube like Pjur Bodyglide is essential when playing with your favourite gay sex toys, and your gay dildo is no exception.

Applying a generous amount of Pjur Bodyglide to your gay dildo and anus will make your gay dildo experience an extremely enjoyable one, and ensure no harm or injury occurs when penetrating a dry orifice with a big dildo. Lubes, quite simply, will make your vibrator feel much more natural and a lot more fun!

Without lube you would be relying on your natural anal secretions, which might not be enough when taking on some of the big guns like the Clear Clear Dildo – at a bigger than average 8-inches high, you can see why lube is a good idea for use with gay dildos!

Even though you may not be attempting to take on something so big and satisfying, every dildo or anal toy feels more delicious and sexy when covered in silky, slippery lube.

But before you rush off and start ordering all sorts of different lubes, you need to remember that you’re buying lube for use with your gay sex toys. Pjur is a silicone based lube and is not compatible with all your gay sex toys and gay dildos in mind.

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Believe it or not there is a university centre dedicated to medically researching and designing the best gay sex toys that are ergonomically designed to work in complete harmony with your bottom.

The Aneros Prostate massager is designed to stimulate both the prostate and the perineum in a rhythmic motion that builds up to unprecedented male orgasms. But don’t just take our word for it; this is what one of our toy testers had to say about it.

I eagerly waited for my Aneros Prostate Massager to arrive, after reading rave reviews and hearing so many good things about it I couldn’t wait to get started.

At first glance I was surprised to find that is it was made of hard plastic. I somehow thought it would be of a softer construction. Not letting that put me off I set to work…

The Aneros prostate massager is designed with a guy’s anatomy in mind. It’s unique shape is specifically designed to stimulate the male prostate. This area is extremely sensitive and stimulating this area can be an intense experience that increases the intensity of orgasm.

With that in mind, choosing the right size and shape of anal toys is critical in ensuring they deliver an enhanced experience because they have to be big enough and shaped correctly to apply pressure to the right spot, and not fall out of your backside in use. This has to be balanced against the fact that anal stimulation can be intense because of the density of nerve endings around the anus and the effect pressure has on the prostate – too big and the experience can be too intense.

The Aneros MGX measures 9cm in insertable length and 8 cm in circumference at its widest point. This prostate massager is one of the smaller size anal toys from the Aneros family.

It’s important to remember that the Aneros prostate massagers ability stimulate comes from its unique shape and not its size.

I applied plenty of Pjur lube to my anus and the toy before pressing the tapered tip against my anus. When the toy was only two thirds inside me my muscles drew it in until it settled into place, its shape and the external arms kept it securely in place. The curvy arms, front and back serve to stimulate the perineum (in the case of the front arm), while the rear one means the toy doesn’t rotate in the anus.

I lay for 15 minutes as instructed in the included manual until my body was fully relaxed and become accustomed to the unique sensation. I was aware that the muscles in my anus were moving the toy without any conscious involvement on my part, it felt great but the best was yet to come! Every now and again, a strong muscular wave rolled along my colon applying pressure to my prostate. I was soon gasping on the verge of orgasm.

What makes the Aneros truly unique is that it is a hands-free, self-propelled device. The Aneros converts the anal sphincter’s natural motions and contractions directly into stimulation of the prostate and perineum, meaning that the user does not use it have to use it manually.

Aneros are designed with hands-free fun in mind, so when I was ready I rolled onto my back started to masturbate my hard cock. I was dribbling precum and felt my balls tightening. Very rarely do my own fluids lubricate me and this made me even harder.

As I approached orgasm I took my balls in my left hand and started stroking my cock furiously with the other. Result, Amazing orgasm and one hell of a cum shot!

I can’t wait to use the Aneros MGX again and absolutely recommend it for amateurs and veterans’ alike! The most fun I’ve had on my own in ages.

Score 5/5

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Reminiscent of the classic teardrop style cock ring, the Oxballs Trough keeps your cock and balls separate while it stimulates your perineum. The super stretchy TPR (Thermo-Plastic Rubber) material goes on smooth and quickly warms to your body temperature.

Made of Oxballs super stretchy TPR rubber material, this thick cock ring is designed to fit over the penis and balls, with the contoured ‘tongue’ nestling behind the balls, pointing towards the perineum.

This ergonomically constructed cock ring features a lovingly contoured tongue shape, which is designed to gently stimulate the perineum during anal sex.

The cock ring portion of the Oxballs Trough give the base of your cock a little added and pleasurable squeeze which helps to keep you hard and your cock in prime thrusting condition! The ball opening gives your boys a gentle squeeze yet still allows your balls to swing to and fro as they please.

Available in a variety of bright colours simply lube the edges of the ring and then ever so gently squeeze your balls through (Oxballs cock rings are super stretchy) so it’s easy to push your penis and testicles through the holes.

I got hard almost immediately and noticed a bigger than average, colossal penis that was ready for action! I immediately started to jerk off and the plastic did do its job hitting the space between my cock and balls and I had a nice above average cum.

The squeeze creates an especially intense hard-on. When its “tongue” hits your perineum, you’re feeling pleasure everywhere. The ring delays ejaculation, while the tip of the tongue tickles and pleases the perineum – the sensitive piece of skin between the balls and the anus.

Caring is sharing!
Shagging, whilst wearing the Oxballs trough cock ring is fantastic! As you rock back and forth the simple piece of rubber comes into delirious play. The Teardrop not only makes shagging more intense, but the tongue is designed to rub against your perineum, repeatedly and in the right place. This cock ring is great for masturbation but super extra, extra special when shagging.

You can view the full range of Oxballs cock rings available at esmale here.

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A firm favourite with customers at esmale, more than two million men all over the world are enjoying the pleasures of Fleshjack and the many styles and textures of these innovative male masturbators.

The Fleshjack masturbator is a portable, concealable, sturdy male masturbation device. Inside the flashlight exterior is a patented gel insert, made from Real Feel Super Skin, designed to simulate the feeling of anal sex or a blowjob.

It’s so tempting to grab your Fleshjack and just go at it, but a few moments of preparation can help you achieve a much more satisfying orgasm.

esmale have four of your favourite gay adult stars from top porn studio BelAmi’. Each of the boys’ has a Fleshjack moulded directly from their mouth and one moulded directly from their anus, which was designed to simulate the sensation of real anal intercourse as closely as possible.

Each sleeve features a gently textured canal with slopes and shapes that so closely emulate the real thing that you’ll feel like a BelAmi star in you’re in your own porn film.

Dolph Lambert
The Dolph lambert Fleshjack comes with the standard powder blue Fleshjack Boys case and features the Squeeze inner sleeve, which is ultra tight and features a wavy canal to really get you off! This gay sex toys should come with a warning – Danger this toy will get you off!!!

Jean-Daniel Chagall
We all want to get into Jean-Daniel Chagall’s ass, and now you can with the Jean-Daniel Chagall’s Fleshjack Butt.

Kevin warhol
Kevin Warhol’s butt Fleshjack is tight and if you’ve ever dreamt of getting your cock into the gorgeous twink you now can with the Kevin Warhol Fleshjack. This toy features the hugely popular ‘Squeeze’ inner sleeve, which is ultra ‘virgin’ tight!

Kris Evans
The Kris Evans Butt Fleshjack comes with the standard Fleshjack Boys powder blue case and has the ‘Squeeze’ inner sleeve texture and a wavy canal to really get you off.

The Fleshjack Ice Crystal range is perfect for couple play as both the sleeve and the case are completely transparent, allowing you to watch every thrust, twist and tease. So guys, why not surprise your man, the Fleshjack Ice Crystal is great fun to use on him while he’s blindfolded and tied to the bed, especially if he doesn’t know it’s coming.

And if you thought that was spoiling you, we are giving away a free bottle of Rush aroma with every Fleshjack order. Buy yours today at esmale here.

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